Why CBSE as a curriculum is flawed ?

My Experience with CBSE up to 10th Grade 

From outdated textbooks to impractical loads of work CBSE has had us all in this bog that we’ve gone through. That’s not what I expected for year’s of my life when I went through it while growing each year and realizing that how impractical it actually was.

Retrospectively, I remember how I was a determined child wanting to achieve all the feats of what I thought success was at that time, such as having the best marks, wanting to do good at sports explore extracurricular activities and so on … and while I could do that in my primary for a few years, my health took away most of my attendance during my 3rd, 4th, and 5th grade making me skip most of the year and being promoted to further grade’s.

Now after 5th grade I transferred to another school as my school was only up to 5th grade and I was fresh out of surgery and came in with the same aspirations as before and couldn’t play any sort of sport for a while or explore any sort of physical activity, Also when I wrote my tests and exams I had realized that especially in maths I couldn’t keep up with anyone anymore as I lacked the basics and didn’t know for years how to do basic division or find out the HCF or LCM of number’s.

As the years went on, for up to 10th my desire for securing a commendation was always dropped by my inability to understand maths and whatever lesson the class went on with, simply because I didn’t have the background knowledge for it and no matter how much I tried, it wouldn’t just get to me and it isn’t something you could memorize so I was always disheartened by it. I received no support whatsoever directly at school and tuitions outside also taught the same lessons the school did and went on with what the syllabus was on with that time and focused more on those topics than to take the time out and sit with a person to help him/her grasp the basic concepts one would need to understand a matter in the subject. Also, I did not like tuitions and it was often a waste of time with too many people in batches you’d often be left to do something and wouldn’t be focused on and would end up having the same results after all that cash and time being spent.

While the people who studied other curriculums who I met later on told me about their experiences with issues like that and spoke about how schools specially created time and assigned teachers to go back on years of grades of knowledge just so the child could catch up and actually understand the subject enough to be left on his own to deal with the matter in it.

So, up to 10th grade you’ve a crowd where most of the people are set upon clearing that same final exam every year with the best set of marks thinking that’s all that matter’s and places them at the top of other’s which affects their character and mindset to have this bad sense of competition with the feeling of superiority at times.

It’s the same deal every year where much of the lot is focused on memorizing the textbook language content (which again hasn’t been updated for years, sometimes I wonder how it’s still on with everything evolving at this point except for that🙄) rather than understanding the logic in it and seeing if it can be applied practically or not (most of it isn’t and you’ve unnecessary load each year for the most unnecessary subjects you’re forced to have) and the result being everyone running a race to clear those exams with that same sort of test that’s been running for years and the result judging everyone in the same way without recognizing the problems of some students ability to not keep up and ruin their sense of self-esteem and a part of their achieving mindset which is ruined by it.

Oh and something I forgot to add, most of the other curriculums work on how you speak, pronounce words in English and help you develop an overall personality as a person which proves useful later on in life and makes you a better conversationalist with a boost in self-esteem and confidence, even making public speaking feel like a piece of cake at times to those students like as if it’s something they do every day.

Anyways until this point, it’s still fine if you’ve done CBSE since you’ve gotten that “basic education” 😂  and can switch to another curriculum that’s practical. (it’s not like your parents knew what they were getting you into) but anyways if you realize certain things at this point you can go on and save yourselves cause this is where a lot goes wrong for the students.

The Circus of Streams, Board Exams and Rushed Decisions 

Enter the 10th grade,  where the hyped up board exams by the crowd or your parents come to haunt you for the year which isn’t valuable anytime after the day that the results been announced, maybe for a few entrances to schools (not even college at least in Dubai otherwise its the final year of high school that must be given to them) it may be asked but I haven’t personally been ever asked about anywhere.

Regardless, most students face the pressure by their parents who strive and compete for their perfect CGPA’s and if this itself wasn’t the least of their concerns after years of repeated clearing of exams for marks and being used to the pattern, students start to become aware of “streams”.

This is where you basically compete for a circus called science, commerce, and humanities which well, can be obtained in other schools if you didn’t get the seat in your school, so your life isn’t over, Also there’s no freedom to select your subjects example boys aren’t allowed to take humanities and certain combinations which you’d be interested in and only now recently new options have come in but it’s still irrelevant.

Most students in the curriculum just take the streams by going with the flow and not putting much thought to it and have the misconception of science being for the Kings, commerce for most of the crowd, and humanities for the pauper’s and don’t realize the value of each stream it has in the world. Most people keep jumping around streams unsure of which one to take now looking at what’s easy or what’s not, while some switch schools to get the particular stream without looking into it in detail or seeing if you’re capable of doing it and regret it after the whole 2 year segment when the 2nd board arrives.

A series of rushed decisions take place with many people switching from one stream to another without thinking about how it would matter to them in the future, what’s their interest in? Should I further explore the scope of it? Etc these questions get ignored by the limited time they have and with their focus on 10th grade board exams as they think it’s the most important obstacle to clear, since they’ve been competing and clearing exams for marks since the beginning, with lots of pressure for those particular years as these exams are a big deal amongst the elders since a long time, Especially in India they don’t explore the streams throughly and are not educated or told well about them and rush into these decisions due to those reasons above based on what they feel at that time which leads them to trouble, later on in 12th grade when the 2nd board arrives.

Now whatever happens during boards they’re all sorts of people but because of the pressure, personal desire to achieve or not getting a particular stream students become disheartened and in some very serious cases give their lives away, which is a big concern, and in a place where marks are glorified over an actual learning scale, which is driven by competition, it can happen, but it isn’t relevant and yes many parents maybe discouraged, students may feel bad, but it’s not the end of your lives  you’ll go on and do better things in a few years,  heck just when you reached 12th itself you’ll realize 10th was a joke in terms of an exam and when you further move on into your later years (college) you’ll realize even 12th grade  boards don’t matter at that point. Which brings u to the question of how much does it actually matter?

Do Boards Matter? Well let’s see for the people who are going to go to India and get admissions there to pursue science especially( I think CBSE only has much value in India that also, only to get into colleges which is also somewhat offset by the other entrances the students prepare for two years or months other than boards to write for example jee mains) while the board marks simply serve as a criteria or a document to show that you’re eligible enough and even then if you are in by the board marks, score less in those entrances and you don’t get in heck most don’t get in even the best of the best, very few out of the pack, the rare ones end up getting in and then starts another flurry of suicide attempts depression etc because of pressure or the others thinking yep I’m gone for good in life) other than the india part, boards don’t have much of a value compared to other systems in the world like IB which is a direct passport to international colleges in the world and is more practical, it teaches you life skills with a college sort of teaching style and gives you a freedom of electives while also working  on your basic subjects like Maths, Science, and English in a manner well suited to set you apart from the others and make you strive to be independent and handle real life like assignments easily. Other than that, 10th-grade board results were never touched upon by anyone ever that I met after that particular year in my life and was not required anywhere.

What happens next after you graduate?   First, you realize whatever stream you took in 11th and 12th were basically just foundations laid for college meaning if you did commerce, science or humanities. Your first two years in the college would teach you something close to it or for some subjects, none of what you learned in those grades would matter at all. Also science people can switch to any stream they like but the other ones can’t switch back to science for obvious reasons, but the point being once you graduate you see many people go down to change their paths let’s say choose a degree in commerce whilst you did 2 years in science and also let’s say you didn’t do commerce in 11th or 12th and did humanities instead it won’t affect you much in college if you took commerce later on as colleges revisit these topics anyways in the first year.

So again for the 11th and 12th graders most will repeat the same process of reaching boards like they did in 10th and will go with the flow while being focused on clearing exams and going on with their classes and will reach the end. Very few people will research colleges beforehand and will take aptitudes, explore career paths and colleges helping them make a better decision later on.

So what happens here is in 11th and 12th in this sort of system you aren’t forewarned or educated or given an idea of what awaits you in college and what could suit you based on what you like and prefer, letting you find yourself in these sort of complex decisions. You’ll just be doing that stream and going with the flow, while in other systems by 9th grade and 10th grade while deciding the streams, they’ll work on their students with multiple personality tests aptitudes and bring in many counselors to educate students about different career paths.

Some schools have councilors which a few students visit (I did).  it’ll help you broaden your mind about these subjects but you’ll still be unaware of many things compared to the students outside, like in terms of practicality what matters later on? how to decide what degree you want to do? etc and why choosing your college and taking the right amount of time for it is very important?

Here I realized it the hard way let’s say I’m nearing the end of my 12th and suddenly everybody wakes up like “oh I gotta decide my college” and Then starts to research into it, by then you’ve given your board exams and have 5 months to decide what you’d want to do? What’s your passion(finding yourself)? What sort of degree suits you? Which colleges are the best for this sort of subject and the most practical? If I want to go to another country what documents I need and how much time will the processing take? The living cost there all that etc? What entrances will I have to clear? So within this span of time you’ll be confused and will most likely make a rushed decision and regret it later like for example you ended up doing engineering for 4-5 years and go onto become a writer later on just because during the time you didn’t know much and took a decision based on the pressure of all things that time or will follow the pack and end up in the same colleges ( atleast in dubai there are few colleges and every year there’s a herd that ends up in the one type the most simply because their friends are there) and later you see all the friends who did IB not having to give entrances, having a separate criteria, being independent living in countries and having better life skills than you ever did and realizing that what you know living in dubai as a student in CBSE is like being pampered and living under a rock compared to what other students are capable of in other countries or from other systems.

You also have no exposure to new people and would be seeing the same peeps since primary or high school which can be good thing but also a bad thing if the people are just again the kind that just go with the flow and don’t wanna chase their ambitions, follow the normal go finish college, get a degree and work white collar jobs.

If you don’t get along well and don’t like the idea of groupism because that happens with the people here from which interacting can be tough sometimes in the later years of college, because of that situation or from the very start when you arrive at the college itself, those groups have been there forever and they already have an idea of you and well it also depends if you have an impression or not.
To conclude If you want to start off with another curriculum I highly recommend that you do instead of choosing an outdated curriculum that produces robots in a factory or at least transfer after 10th if you are in that stage to save yourself and do something like IB and well if you are in the middle of 11th and 12th take the right time to choose your college and focus on the practical parts of it and do your research on it.

Nobody has ever asked me my board marks in any of the places that I’ve gone too and it is just another rotting document sitting somewhere in the cabinet, if you ask me what matters instead I’d say all your volunteer work, extra curricular activities, sports will matter more later on than your marks ever did because it’s all about languages, skills, appearance, your overall personality and practical knowledge that’ll make you climb and set your apart from the others so that’s all I have on my part from my limited knowledge, experience and opinion on it .


The Eldredge Knot : Why you should learn to tie it?

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So you’re on your phone one fine day, scrolling through Pinterest and Instagram, then suddenly you’re greeted by images of a beautiful knot …  bold, sharp, classy and right off the bat you want to go about it and tie it right away. You see that it’s trending and it’s elegant, making it the perfect fit to wear on your graduation.

Then you come across complex infographics that make you think it’s a lot of work and frustrating to understand, then you’re let down. (complex infographic below)


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How to tie It?

Seem’s heavy right well don’t worry this is where YouTube came in to help me. I discovered a guy named Alex Krasny who was a necktie expert and within 5 minutes of watching his video’s on the Eldredge, I tied my first knot. (Here’s how it turned out).

So I tied the knot on my graduation and had received many compliments on the day itself and had many people ask me to tie it for them, How did I learn to do that? How much time did it take to get it? etc… well not very much at all, just a couple of minutes and a few attempts while being slow initially. Anyways I appeared classy, had a unique look that set me apart from the others. I saw the potential in the knot and went on to tie the knot for multiple occasions and was acknowledged by everyone wherever I went.

The Success Factor

Fast forward to a few months later, I am in my first year in college, off to find internships for the summer. A company named Bonnington Hotel & McGettigan’s Group sends an interview our way in and I decide to go for it.

Being a five-star hotel and having a prestigious rep in the community, It was exciting that my first interview would be for it, So on the coming day I dress up, put my tie on with the knot and go about my day.

About 10 of us from my college interview for it and one by one each one enter’s and gets done, then comes my turn and I enter, there are two people an Irish lady and the Hotelier who showed us around the hotel right before the interview, we exchange our greetings and pleasantries and the question’s come right after which I answer to the best of my knowledge and confidence.

Within minutes we reach the end of the interview and the lady smiling compliments my tie saying ” That tie looks beautiful”, “Where did you learn to tie that ?” “Can I have a link to it?” She further states that as people working at the hotel, Its code that they dress very well and professionally and this would help them up the ante, she then thanks me for it and concludes the interview.

So out of the 10 people who went for it, few backed out and with Ramadan coming in soon after, I decided not to take it since the pay was low and the travelling part wasn’t worth it, but they asked for me twice later on, even saying to my friend that they really wanted me as I dressed well and was a good fit for the post, this served as a note to why appearance plays a big role in getting hired and serving as a plus to your overall personality.

This was just one of the many instances I’ve had in me getting the offer off of a huge lot of candidates who appeared for the interviews.

A Matter of Appearance

Out of the total of 6 interviews that I’ve had, I’ve gotten into 5 of them (edit it’s 6 on 6 now) and have had the choice to take the offer or not, But all the interviewer’s in all my interviews’ have always praised, complimented and have asked me to teach it to them in one way or the other, including the folks at Hyperloop Transportation Technologies where there were about 4 people interviewing the remaining three of us in the Stage 2 process of their recruitment to be the assistant of the head of operations for the Middle East and Africa region. The HOO took note of my tie and said that I could teach it to them during the interview.

Also out of the 8 candidates that were there at stage one (all graduates, I was the only undergraduate student there), there were two of us remaining from the first one and a new guy had popped up in the 2nd I guess he got the post in the end. (Update:- I got in)

But the point being wearing the knot makes you stand out, be unique, look classy and stylish while you do what you do and increases your odds of getting hired and stand out from the pack. It works in all sorts of environments be it A prom, workplace, interview’s, wedding’s etc …you’ll always be noticed and complimented on it and have some people awestruck by it.

So go ahead get off your shoes and tie the Eldredge, wear it with pride and keep your chin up, look in the mirror and instantly feel good about yourself and watch it make your day better in an instant and help you reach success. Who knew a small touch to a piece of accessory like a tie could do wonders like that? 😜